I know this may sound too simplistic, but love can be found in many places outside of our homes. For example, when riding the subway or bus, look at the people around you and think about who might make a nice friend or romantic partner. If you see someone interesting and attractive, try to imagine what your life would be like if that person were a part of it and then look for ways to make that happen.
When we place ourselves in the mindset of having love in our lives, feng shui can help us bring this into manifestation.
1) Placing symbols of love
One feng shui tool I like to use is placing symbols of love throughout my home (or workspace). These could include anything from small statues to paintings or photographs; whatever represents love to you can go on your feng shui checklist.
2) Adding plants
Also, think about adding plants such as roses or bamboo plants into your environment because they symbolize growth and new beginnings – two things we need to create new relationships (just make sure to keep them alive because feng shui is all about life energy).
3) Candles or lights
If you’re single, feng shui can also help to bring love into your life. One way to do this is by placing candles or lights in the feng shui bagua areas of marriage/relationship, balance/harmony, and creativity/children – these are places where new people often enter our lives. Just be sure not to light any candles unless they are placed in a safe holder; you don’t want anyone (or yourself) getting burned!
4) Plants and feng shui
Once you start feng shuing your love life, don’t forget to use plants and feng shui around them as well. Be sure to place plants throughout the feng shui bagua areas of marriage/relationship, balance/harmony, and creativity/children – these are places where new people often enter our lives. Just be sure not to place any plants in the feng shui bagua area of travel/career or health/family because those areas will need to stay clear for a short while.
5) Do feng shui on yourself
Of course, feng shuying your love life will involve more than just renovating your home; it’s also about making adjustments to yourself. You will need to feng shui your thoughts, words, and actions in order for love to find its way into your feng shui bagua – start by making a list of all the ways you can improve these things then create feng shui remedies that work best for you.
6) Do feng shui on your relationships
As I mentioned earlier, feng shui can also be used to help feng shui your love life. This means feng shuying relationships you’ve already established and feng shuying the relationship you have with yourself. To do this:
a) Think about the ways your existing love relationships might be affecting your feng shui bagua areas of marriage/relationship, balance/harmony, and creativity/children – these are areas where new people can enter our lives. If you notice that there is room for improvement in any of these areas then think about what changes need to be made. Also, if you feel like you need more romantic relationships in your life, remember that feng shui can help you feng shui your love life as well – start by feng shuing your thoughts, words and actions.
b) Think about the feng shui bagua areas of marriage/relationship, balance/harmony, and creativity/children then look at how those areas might be affecting your relationships with yourself and those around you. If there are any ways in which feng shui could improve these relationships, consider feng shuing your thoughts, words, and actions as well as doing feng shui on specific people or objects that influence you.
7) Escape feng shui triggers
When it comes to feng shuing your love life, you will need to know how feng shui affects you and what feng shui tools can be used. Sometimes we create feng shui triggers through our thoughts, words, and actions so if yours are not in alignment with what you want, feng shuing yourself can help. To do this:
a) Think about the feng shui bagua areas of marriage/relationship, balance/harmony and creativity/children then consider how these areas might be affecting your thoughts, words, or actions that aren’t helping you attract love into your life – practice thinking positively in order to improve things.
b) Think about specific people or feng shui triggers that might be feng shuing you and feng shuing these people or objects can help to prevent them from doing so.
8) Bring feng shui into your love life
Bring feng shui right into your love life by feng shuing the right way – but just remember that feng shui isn’t a magic bullet and it still takes hard work on your part if you want to find Mr./Mrs. Right. Still, feng shuing your thoughts, words, and actions with feng shui can improve things; try using feng shuied crystals or an i-ching coin for better guidance as well as feng yung glasses (further down this list under “tools”) to feng shui your love life.
9) Don’t feng shui a feng shui trigger
Many feng shui triggers – such as fountains, wind chimes and crystals – can help feng shuiy our thoughts, words, and actions but many feng shui triggers have negative energy connected with them too so if you’re going to use one of these feng shuied tools make sure it’s not affecting your feng shui bagua negatively by bringing stress, conflict or depression into any of the areas mentioned above. You will need to find another way to feng shui those areas if this is the case.
10) Do feng yung glasses (also called feng fyng glasses)
You can buy these online or at most metaphysical stores. Put the glasses on and make sure they suit your face before you actually get down to business with them (some of these tools are for specific genders only). If they don’t suit your face but you still want to use them, get some tinted lenses if you can or attach something extra to the frames that suits your gender while also making sure that feng fyng glasses are feng shui’d in the first place.
a) Look through feng fyng glasses in your feng shui bagua areas of marriage/relationship, balance/harmony and creativity/children to see which area needs feng shuing with feng fyng lenses.
b) Place feng fyng glasses on your nose then look through them at specific people that might be affecting you negatively – it might take a while to get used to these glasses but once you’re able to actually do something with them they can turn into really great tools for feng shui use.
For the feng shui beginner, feng shui can seem like an endless list of what to do’s and what not to do’s that may appear too overwhelming for some. However, feng shui is actually quite simple and some of the best feng shui tips can be obtained simply by paying attention to your environment.